Comments on: Waiting for that door to open

By: sonia

sonia — Sun, 12 Apr 2015 02:31:28 +0000

Thank you ladies for your thoughtful responses. It is good to get positive feedback from others. I am still looking and studying for my insurance license. I have very positive experience networking, I am praying that something wonderful comes out if it. I am also in the middle of a diy blitz which makes me very happy, my passion maybe.

By: Rita

Rita — Sat, 04 Apr 2015 11:07:25 +0000

It’s not easy out there. I have been where you are and am retired now. However, I also still work. The economic changes continued to affect many of us going into retirement. Having smaller children though while unemployed will always weigh heavier on a good soul. Make sure you try temp jobs, network, and jobs you can create on your own. Don’t be afraid to spread your wings as wide as possible. I have some more tips at: http://every-day-life-of-the-unemployed.blogspot.com/
Jobs are out there–it’s just knowing where to find them. You will survive having a strong faith and the industriousness you have already shown.

By: Gina

Gina — Mon, 23 Mar 2015 13:10:23 +0000

I am sorry to hear about your experience. There are some positives in your situation.
Companies are more likely to hire people who have a long history at their previous jobs. The fact that you stayed with one employer for so long is truly commendable.
My own resume is littered with 1 year positions because I am always on the lookout for the best job. And in interviews, I constantly have to defend my job jumping decisions when the question gets asked.
Also, you have your children to help keep you motivated. Often times, unemployment can put us in a sad place with feelings of unworthiness. But family can help keep your mind strong and focused.
This may be a good time for you to consider a career change. After my divorce, I went back to IT school to pursue my true interests. And I am so glad I did. I re-married (met my husband in IT school) and I am getting ready to have my bachelors before I turn 40. A late start, but totally worth it.
Career changes take a lot of research. I actually had to move to another part of state to get the best chance at getting a job in my new career. Location definitely plays a role in finding a great job. You might also want to research what careers are hot right now, what certifications you might need, and are you eligible for any programs that can help with the costs of all of this. I have a basic website I did for school with career change advice and links to job sites. http://www.souwant2ba.org
Career change is a passionate topic for me, not only because of my own mistakes, but also because I have seen so many people end up in careers that are not good for their lives and culture. I wish you the best of luck in your new adventure!