An Ode to the Unemployed by Michelle Baker

ode to the unemployed

Over- and under- qualified, and everything in between,
If I enter my job history one more time, I might just break my screen.

I’ve cleaned behind the dryer, I’ve scoured every floor,
I’ve cleaned in places that my broom has never seen before.

I’ve shredded stacks of paper that I no longer need,
I’ve written snazzy cover letters that impress no one – Indeed!

My refrigerator glistens, my plants no longer dying,
no matter how long it takes, I will not give up trying!

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Monday Morning Rant….Is BACK! #MondayBlues

monday morning rant


I decided to do a bit of a test on!

First, I want to try to post six times a week for 30 days. I have a lot of boring downtime at work, so I may as well see where this blog can go.

Second, I want to bring my Monday rant back! It was once called Monday Work Rant, but really, that leaves too many people out. There’s a lot more going on Monday than just work to rant about (how about the lack of work? Or the commute? Or people who act like jerks in line? And so on, and so on)

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5 Tips on How to Handle a Manipulative Coworker



For the past two years, my “difficult coworker” has been a thorn in my side since I started. About a month into starting this job, I experienced my “difficult coworker’s” bad attitude in addition to dealing with manipulative and bitchy remarks and tactics to make me look bad in the department. After a while, despite valid complaints, I was told by my supervisor to “live and let live.”


If you’ve ever worked around this type of personality that will not leave you alone and are constantly finding ways to make you look bad, you will know “live and let live” is near to impossible.

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Finding a Job, Like Winning the Lottery – An Unemployment Story

I was humbled to receive this email from someone who named themselves “Peace.” This is an unemployment story from somewhere all the way across the globe from me. To know this blog reaches such far distances and speaks to people as far as Turkey means so much to me. I have not altered the language in the post as these are Peace’s words.

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I want to tell my unemployment story.

I live in Turkey. I have been searching a job for 1 year. Unfortunately, I can not find. Turkey has a bad economic situation.

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It’s Monday Again… An Anonymous Unemployment Story

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I think so many of you who are unemployed can relate to this unemployment story. The rest of this post will be anonymous and I thank the contributor for sharing their story.

It’s Monday again, only this one is different because it is 11 months to the day that I found myself unemployed. As I say goodbye to my boyfriend before he leaves for work, it dawns on me that I’m now alone for the day, trapped with my thoughts and weather I want to get up and face the day or stay in bed and hide away.

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The Job Applicant Hierarchy – Who Really Gets the Job? [by Marc Shaeffer]

who really gets the job?


Overall, the job market is getting better.   Slowly getting better, that is.  Personally, I’ve been having more job interviews in the last 6 months than anytime time period since I was let go from my full-time job in 2010.   Last Friday, there were signs that more discouraged workers that were once sitting on the sidelines were now re-entering the workforce.   The competition for jobs, however, is still a concern.   As of May, there is still an average of more than 2 unemployed people per 1 open position.   If you factor in people with jobs, career fields and regional markets, that number is actually higher.   With more people entering the workforce, that ratio may not fluctuate much in the coming months.

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5 Reasons Why Employers Repost the Same Job

employers repost This past week my mom and older brother, who are both out of work, responded to job postings that later got reposted. In fact, after the second round of interviews, my mom found out that the job she was interviewing for was reposted!  How cruel is this?

I find this baffling, rude, and pointless. Pointless, because I wonder who this employer thinks they will get with this new listing. The odds are that the majority of applicants from the first round might reapply to that same job again.

Yet, aside from assuming employers are asshats and do this to be jerks, I decided to search online for an answer.

I found 5 reasons employers repost that makes the most sense to me.

1) There are multiple openings for the same position.

I think this is reasonable. The company I work for regularly hires for this entry level position and over the last 6 months, they’ve had a lot of people leave, and so that means they’ve hired multiple people to replace the ones who left. The job gets reposted, because there are multiple positions (the fact that one person left inside of two months is an entirely different story).

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Have you ever felt stuck in life?

stuck, getting unstuck, career, stuck in life

photo credit: Felipe Morin via photopin cc

This may be a brief post, but I am not blogging as much as I would like these days. Although I don’t think I’m alone in feeling like that, as a blogger.

Anyways, the main reason for this post is that I feel stuck.

Just stuck. Like I’m on pause, in my own life.

I’m not moving forward at work. I’m not able to find a new job. My mom and brother aren’t finding jobs. I’m not having a sudden influx of cash from an unknown resource.

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Company Goals & When You Don’t Have an Answer



Next week is my “company goals” meeting with my department VP (a non-intimidating passive lady who barely speaks to anyone at the entry level status) and my department supervisor (who seems to hate the idea of actually supervising).

This is an ongoing, quarterly concern for me as I’m not really sure what I should say, especially in this past year when I’ve revealed to them that I don’t have an interest in advancing in this particular department. I’ve taken on one – and only one – project with the department of my interest (the elusive creative department) but I haven’t sat down and talked with the director since my last project. He’s supposed to be back this week and I’ve walked past his office a few times and so far don’t see him.

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Do People Use Charisma to Manipulate?

do people use charisma to manipulate

It’s been a while since I’ve posted and a lot has happened over the last few weeks (and a lot has stayed the same). But recently, my company has hired a new guy – one of the only guys in my female dominated department. He’s very outgoing, flamboyant, and friendly.

And inside of two weeks, this guy has won over every person in my department. Even (and most especially) the bitches.

At first, I thought of him as naturally charismatic, a quality that I’m sure made him a success in his previous sales role. This initial impression blended in with surprise that he is just naturally able to make friends with people and treat them like he’s known them for years.

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